Cyber stalking

Okay, I admit to being a blog stalker. I totally read blogs that I never comment on. Mostly, I follow the blogs of my friends (and very distant family) Lisa and Nessa. We try and walk several times a week and I read their family's blogs so that I don't spend all my time asking who's pregnant and who's kids did what. So, I just read one of lisa's sil's blogs. She has fabulous Halloween murals that she's painted on her windows. I want to say, "Hey, those are fabulous!!!" But then I'm afraid that she say, "Who is this crazy lady posting?" So I have no idea what to do. And, now I'm curious- is anyone stalking my blog? I have an idea that one person might be, but really if you're stalking let me know...........